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Every good lover wants to know how to give the best head. Well, all it takes is practice and patience. No matter what: you must enjoy what you’re doing, because if it’s just to please the partner, it’ll show in the efforts. And trust me: no one wants that. What should be a moment of pure bliss shouldn’t wind up being a chore gone wrong. Just follow these six simple tips and the results should be obvious in no time.
Relax - The beginning is all about foreplay and setting the scene. Don’t rush anything in this crucial moment. At the same time, don’t spend more time than what is necessary. After awhile, a person can only take so much before becoming irritated or *gasps* bored. Then before they even know it, they’re constructing their grocery and “to-do list” in their head rather than enjoying their special treatment from their lover. After all, who wants to lie there and emphasize moans when really they want is more action?
Enjoy the scenery - This is mother nature at it’s finest: the naked human form. The more the giver becomes in awe of the site, the sexier the receiver will instantly feel. And the more into the act both people become. So take a minute (or two) and explore all the dips and hills he or she has.
Know what they like - Yes, this involves communication which too many people forget to do. If there is a comfortable relationship between both parties, this should be no big deal. I have yet to hear a single person say, “Damn, I wish you wouldn’t ask how to make my orgasms better.” This is probably because people crave and desire a better sex life but they’re just too insecure, impatient, or inexperienced to actually know how. Take note the next time you’re pleasuring yourself solo, and report back your findings to your mate and ask them to do the same.. Or better yet, experiment together and cross examine one another.
Multitask - This is why we have two hands, not just one. It can be difficult to juggle and, more than likely, you will get sidetracked. Touch their stomach, thighs, buttocks, scrotum (when applicable) and, oh yes, the G-spot (Note: this last one DOES apply to both females and males. If there are any questions, get back to me).
The multiple sensations should have most lovers running wild unless they specify it’s just not doing it for them. Most important to note, not everyone will enjoy the same techniques. This goes back to the previous tip about knowing what your lover likes. Like the saying goes: different strokes for different folks.
Makes sounds or sexy talk - A little goes a long way. I know as a woman I have plenty of insecurities when it comes to my southern parts, despite never having one complaint. Like many, I have wasted so much time staring at the ceiling with clenched legs wondering if I taste or smell good. Rather, I convince myself that no man would be down there for ten minutes if I weren’t. Something so simple as a moan from the person on their back or vocal gesture from the person in the nether regions can instantly make the insecure person feel better. Even cooing noises and complementing a part will result in a pleasing reaction.
Have fun with it - Remember, sex isn’t a race towards a finish line nor is an orgasm the crowing achievement to the experience. It’s supposed to be a fun, sexual connection that’s just as enjoyable to the giver as it is to the receiver. After all, there is no need to feel pressured to make the person cum; that’s why there’s masturbation. This is a physical act people can’t produce themselves. Revel in the act itself rather than the result.
Remember: sex is hardly ever as synchronized on television or movies (that’s what editing’s for). In real life, certain unfriendly noises will occur, body parts can get mashed, and rarely can someone hold their leg just so in some position for that long of a time. After all, fantasies are to be indulged so just note to mimic what can’t be accomplished. Plus, humor in a sensitive setting can be very sexy. It tends to take the pressure off.
Once the person giving the oral pleasure gets over the idea that making the person cum completes the task, perhaps more will be inclined to do so. More than likely, the person receiving is content with the attention his or her genitals are getting.
Happy humping everyone and don’t forget to take all the necessary precautions. If you plan on having sex for the rest of your life, you’d best make sure your equipment stays tip-top shape.
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